“Does your manager bully you? puts you down?” what to do?
Here a few tips:
Take a notebook and write everytime it happened ( detail the situation).
Try to understand the reasons behind this abusive behaviour and remember : it has nothing to do with you, they are just projetting their own insecurities.
Bullies have not enough self esteem although they show the opposite. Their only way for them to feel good about themselves is to put other people down. It conforts them.
How to make it stop?. If you confronts them, the situation will get worse. You need to change the dynamic and understand one important thing. They put you down because they fear you.
Be smarter and wiser. You are in front of a person who has the emotional intelligence of a child who’s having a tantrum!
Don’t fall into their trap by replying, it is a waste of time. Ignore them.
Seeing you not responsive to all their jabs, will make them stop after a while.
